Saturday, September 27, 2014

Practicing Awareness of Microaggressions


Practicing Awareness of Microaggressions

 The microaggression I read about was an article online Professional Black Women Wrongly Accused of Prostitution event occurred in a New York at a Standard Hotel in Manhattan’s fashionable Meatpacking District. There were three professional African American ladies going to enjoy an evening drink and conversation. They were the only African American ladies in the restaurant.  They were approached at different times by several mean offering to buy them a drink. A security guard approached the group whispered something in the man’s ear and he walked away. Her then approached the ladies and replied to the ladies ‘Come on, ladies. You can buy a drink but you can’t be soliciting (Van Buren, 2014)
 
This is a clear example of racial microaggression because this was clearly discrimination, and stereotyping people for the race by the dominant power culture of the people associated with this establishment. The guard whispering something to one of the men that approached the ladies and him leaving only add fire of discrimination being experience by the three ladies.  The guard accusing them of prostitution and the responds from hotel manager over their treatment, and were met with indifference. They never received an apology but were offered a free meal and champagne. There was no true resolution to this horrible experience for three economical sufficient African American professionals. Situations like this case of racial microaggression has being experienced by people of different cultures for a longtime and until society learn to respect and become an anti-bias society we will have these challenges for time to come.

 You can read this article at: http://latest.com/2014/09/three-professional-black-women-wrongly-accused-prostitution/#!  

Saturday, September 20, 2014


Perspectives on Diversity and Culture

I enjoyed talking with different people to get their thoughts on what is culture and diversity means to them. There were some similarities and there were differences in the responses I received from all three. The definition of culture all reflected what we have learned thus far in the course; live, their beliefs, what they eat, and their religious beliefs.

 One of the friends I talked with considers their family Jehovah Witnesses and they live and practice a different set of rules when it comes to celebrating holidays. They do not engage birthday celebrations, Easter or any other “normal “holiday. They are a very close net group of people that believe in working for their religious kingdom. They did not have any different set of rules when it came to what they eat such as different meats. But that was not so when I talked with a Muslin friend with several children attending public school.
 
Their culture clothing for everyday wears, inside and outside the house; and clothing required in specifically religious contexts. The attire was women and girls wore veils (hijab). The culture has strict rules on what they eat such no pork and some do not eat beef. The family studied the Qur'an (bible) and followed the guidance of the rules within the content of the Qur’an. The family celebrates two major religious observances each year, Ramadan and Hajj, and corresponding holidays connected with each one. During these celebrations the children are excused from school to participate in these events. The third friend I talked with was from Mexico and this was w very interesting conversation.

 I was familiar with the other two culture believes and family values but the beliefs of the Latino family gave me an insight on how to better serve the children from Mexico. I believed that people from Mexico shared the same culture “norms” and were all intertwined but this was far of being true.  My friend is from Mexico some of their culture values and traditions they stress the importance of close extended family relationships, the strict roles of males as respected providers and females as trustworthy abnegate mothers, and the need for children’s absolute obedience in exchange for parental love and protection. They are very religious beliefs are of the Catholic faith. They want their children to have the best education possible and learning English as a second language weighs heavily on the expectations of the children.

When I asked about their thoughts of diversity the answer were very similar they all believed people need to learning about the cultures of other people and respect the difference. They all really stressed the fact they want their children to be aware and respect the beliefs, values and traditions of others, but to never forget about their own families identity values and beliefs. The families understood the importance of knowing the culuture and divserty of other families provide children the richness and values of others. they also are lesrning about the people around them  as discussed in the video ""Culture Diversity".

I was pleased to learn I shared the same ideas the three groups of people I talked with. We need to hold on to our own cultural values and beliefs but be willing to embrace others for whom and what their families are so we can live a true diverse society.

Friday, September 12, 2014


My Family Culture
As I tried to choose the three small items I would take with family and me it was not as easy I people would think. I had to good deep in my soul to decide what those items would be. The three items I finally decide to take:
My family album       
My family album has pictures of my life and the many family’s memories of life together.
My deceased mother recipes
My mother would write her recipes in a notebook as we watched her cook the many wonderful meals we eat.
 

My Bible
My Bible because it was the gift my husband gave me when we got married and I have recorded the births and deaths of people in our families.   
If I were asked why I chose these three items my responds would be:
My family’s life is gathered in the pictures in our album. My parents started the album from the day they wed to the present day. We believe in family celebrating new life when a baby is born and the many family reunions we have had as the family brings food, fun and share memories of our family.

My mother recipes would go with me because going to an unfamiliar country we would want to share foods we are accustom to made with the loving heart and hands of my mother. The recipes were past from my ancestors to my grandmother who then in turned passed the notebook to my mother.
My Bible was a wedding gift from my husband and it has the important date’s record in the front such as our wedding date, our children’s birth and the family members that are  no long with us. It also is the source of my faith and strength. When I feel life is going to be overwhelming I can always go to my Bible to get an uplifting word.  is our source of strengthen and faith in time of trouble.

If I was told I could only keep one of the items this would be difficult because each items is a part of my cultural and represents who I am. I think I would choose the family album because it holds the most precious memories of my life. When I feel I am losing my identity I can always look at the album and empower my social self.  

This assignment helped me reflect on how strong our family bond is and that my family history is the glue that keeps me going and made me the woman I am today.